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Why Divorce Can Feel Like Trauma
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

Why Divorce Can Feel Like Trauma

Divorce can feel more overwhelming than you expected — even when you know it was the right decision. This post explains why the end of a relationship can impact your nervous system like trauma, leading to anxiety, rumination, or emotional shutdown. Learn how divorce affects your sense of safety and stability, and how therapy can help you process what happened and begin to feel grounded again.

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How Therapists Decide What Happens in a Therapy Intensive
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

How Therapists Decide What Happens in a Therapy Intensive

Many high-functioning adults are curious about therapy intensives, but unsure what actually happens during extended sessions. How does a therapist decide what to focus on? Will it feel structured—or overwhelming? In this post, I walk you through how trauma-informed therapists thoughtfully assess your goals, nervous system capacity, and history to design an intensive that feels intentional, flexible, and emotionally safe. If you’ve been feeling anxious, stuck, or shut down, understanding the planning behind a therapy intensive can help you approach this option with more clarity and confidence.

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Why Recovery Sometimes Takes More Than Physical Care
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

Why Recovery Sometimes Takes More Than Physical Care

Injury or surgery doesn’t just affect the body- it can affect your nervous system, identity, sense of safety, and trust in yourself. Yet most recovery plans focus almost exclusively on the physical needs: range of motion, strength, post-op timelines, and milestones in physical therapy.


This blog shares from two different helping professionals who support folks pre and post surgery and in recovery from injuries. Dr. Michaela Soules PT, DPT is a dedicated physical therapist and certified life coach who created Soul Strength for one purpose: empower clients to successfully navigate their recovery after surgery or life-altering injuries. Michelle Spurgeon, LCSWS is an EMDR therapist who can support clients pre-surgery or in recovery to create effective coping plans, heal from medical trauma or strengthen their inner-self for recovery.

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Why Can’t I Think My Way Out of Anxiety or Trauma Triggers?
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

Why Can’t I Think My Way Out of Anxiety or Trauma Triggers?

Many of the clients I work with already have a deep understanding of their patterns. They can trace reactions back to childhood experiences, past relationships, or major losses. They’re not lacking awareness.

What they’re missing is a way to help their body feel something different, not just understand it.Approaches like EMDR help access the parts of the brain where these reactions are actually stored. Rather than endlessly rehashing the story, we work with how the experience lives in your body and nervous system—so it can finally update.

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Therapist Networking & Connection Hour
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

Therapist Networking & Connection Hour

Join us on January 16 from 1:00–2:30pm for an afternoon of connection with fellow therapists in private practice. Snacks and sodas will be provided, and the focus is on genuine conversation—not awkward icebreakers or forced networking.

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How to Set Realistic Mental Health Goals for the New Year
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

How to Set Realistic Mental Health Goals for the New Year

The start of a new year often comes with pressure to change everything at once—but mental health doesn’t work that way. If you’re feeling burned out or anxious, traditional New Year’s resolutions may be doing more harm than good. This post explores how to set realistic mental health goals rooted in compassion, emotional well-being, and sustainability, with examples of New Year intentions that prioritize progress over perfection and support long-term healing.

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5 Tips for Managing Stress Around Christmas When You’re Healing From Trauma
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

5 Tips for Managing Stress Around Christmas When You’re Healing From Trauma

If holiday stress feels overwhelming or you’re tired of white-knuckling your way through the holidays, you deserve more support. Read for 5 therapist-approved tips for caring for you during the holidays when you’re recovering from trauma. Therapy can help you create safer boundaries, regulate anxiety, and untangle the emotional weight of coping with family during holidays.

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How to Navigate Grief During the Holidays
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

How to Navigate Grief During the Holidays

Your grief doesn’t disappear just because the calendar says it’s time to celebrate. Grief during the holidays can feel heavier because the absence of your loved one is felt more deeply. With the right holiday grief support, it’s possible to move through this season with more gentleness, intention, and care.

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The Hidden Benefits of Therapy Intensives You Might Not Know About
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

The Hidden Benefits of Therapy Intensives You Might Not Know About

Discover the hidden benefits of therapy intensives beyond crisis care. Learn how intensives offer time efficiency, deeper breakthroughs, emotional reset, and flexible trauma treatment. Explore intensive therapy advantages for faster results and more meaningful healing. Schedule a consultation to learn more.

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How to Recognize Burnout and Recover From It
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

How to Recognize Burnout and Recover From It

When you’re juggling multiple roles, burnout can be easy to dismiss exhaustion as “normal” or to tell yourself you just need to push through. But burnout isn’t just about being tired—it’s a sign that your mind and body have been running on empty for too long. Recognizing it early and taking steps toward recovery can help you feel more grounded, capable, and at peace again.

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5 Ways to Protect Your Emotional Health During the Holidays
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

5 Ways to Protect Your Emotional Health During the Holidays

Protecting your holiday mental health doesn’t mean withdrawing from the season—it means approaching it with care, intention, and compassion for yourself. Here are five emotional health tips to help you navigate the holidays with more peace and authenticity.

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How to Set Boundaries for your Mental Health
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

How to Set Boundaries for your Mental Health

Struggling with people-pleasing? Learn why setting healthy boundaries is essential for mental health, how to set and maintain them, and how therapy can help you practice boundary setting tips with support.

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Understanding the impact of trauma on mental health
Michelle Spurgeon Michelle Spurgeon

Understanding the impact of trauma on mental health

If you have experienced trauma and now struggle with your mental health, it is important to remember: this is not a flaw in your character. Developing PTSD or other trauma-related challenges is your brain and body’s natural response to overwhelming experiences. Trauma and mental health are deeply connected, and understanding that connection is the first step toward healing.

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